Why do families tend to resist change?

Families often resist change because they have a sense of self that defines them. This identity is closely linked to their values, beliefs, and family dynamics, which can make the prospect of change feel threatening or uncomfortable. When individuals perceive change as a challenge to their established identity or way of life, they may become defensive or resistant. The way a family sees itself—shaped by tradition, history, and relationships—creates a natural inclination to uphold the status quo, as it feels more secure and familiar.

Understanding this aspect of family dynamics is crucial for practitioners in child welfare, as it allows them to approach families with empathy and tailored strategies that respect their identity while facilitating the change process. Addressing the emotional and psychological components associated with a family's sense of self can help them navigate and embrace change more effectively.